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Monday, August 20, 2007

Any single preggers out there?

Not for me!

I came across this thread which amused me. So I decided to contribute by helping pass the word.

Click here to read about it.

For those of you to lazy to click, it is basically an 'ad' for a single guy who is looking for a pregnant woman to get with. Apparently he has some depression issues and believes that getting with a pregnant woman would help improve things.

Here is the list of criterias:
- must be legal age (17-35)
- must be slim (pre-pregnancy)
- must be good-looking.
- speaks english
- level-headed (basically meaning she got pregnant because of a mistake, not because she's a feng tau chick who sleeps with 100 men)

I cannot help but notice the last point where it says 'level-headed' with the explanation of getting pregnant by mistake as an acceptable qualification, and not a person who sleeps around. It may be just me, but a level headed person would not get herself pregnant in the first place. A high probability of getting pregnant is not determined by the quantity of a men she has slept with. If she does not play safe, the chances are as high as with just having one partner. The only problem I can see with having many partners is not knowing who the father is. A level-headed person would not sleep around so easily and would not easily get herself pregnant if she did not intend to in the first place.

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Now back to the guy's intentions. I do not think that getting with a pregnant woman will help with his personal issues. Especially if he has no experiences with caring for a woman and a baby. It will only add on to his despair if he already has problems dealing with his own issues. I also do not think that any pregnant woman who was abandoned would simply trust any guy who would suddenly be so nice as to offer such a relationship like that. A relationship does not happen overnight. Being able to be in a position to look after a woman and her child is not something you can crash course. Yes I am saying all this based on zero experience. However I say this with giving it thought in different views.

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